Feb 25 2026 1
Legitimately, I couldn’t understand why I had a problem with my [ex]wife having sex with my best friend at the time and was trying to figure out and understand WHY for so long without coming to the conclusion that “this won’t work because I’m NOT poly”. Like. The idea was forbidden because I was trying to make it work. The idea behind saying this— which still fucks me up, why did I say that?— was that maybe because I had been with Y a certain way, it bothered me to share that connection with someone else at the same time. And, you know. This mess came out. They internalized it. And it caused even more problems.