Written Nov 2022:

I got the last of my stuff in April and told the exes to throw out the rest because I was pouring so much of my own money into getting my shit back. No one really felt like it was fair, but I didn’t trust them at all to actually do a damn thing. Everything arrived very damaged, covered in cat pee, and I had the misfortune of somehow acquiring them absolutely soaked. I had to replace a number of books and such…